Six things every Christian should know before Online Dating Part Two

Six things every Christian should know before Online Dating Part Two In the first part, discussed the importance of remaining anonymous, why you should always ask for a photo of your online dating prospect, and how the Holy Spirit can lead and guide their efforts. In this last segment, we? Ll talk about and not two? T making phone contact as well as all important first date. Tip # 4: Time to make the call So you feel comfortable enough to exchange phone numbers? One word: STOP! If you're ready to talk on the phone, which is fine - but do not surrender their home or cell number yet enough. Remember that is just from what I saw and read the incredible world of the Inteet anonymously. Your best bet is to make a public phone. This way you can still get to know the other person, keeping his identity secret. In addition, a mobile phone offers an excuse to cut the conversation short, if things are not the way we work. And again, if the other part deals with the pressure on something that you're not comfortable, take a walk! TIP # 5: Going Public For now, you're very comfortable with things. Have you ever had conversations online and by phone, you hear how the Holy Spirit gives you an inch, and are ready to meet face to face. That's great! But there are still some things to think about before getting together. ? First, always always ALWAYS plan to meet in public places. This is extremely important. Make sure there are many people around - there is safety in numbers. The last thing you want is in some isolated place where things always start at ease. ? We seek a trusted friend or family member knows exactly where it is going backwards. Give them all the information we have about the person that you are about to meet. ? Park the car a few blocks away and walk to the place of meeting. Or better yet, take a taxi or bus. Remember that your secret identity is still beautiful. Plates can be easily located. ? Or bring with you a friend or a close friend to stay "on the sly." If things get too weird, you can always duck together. Someone would be less likely to follow if you are not alone. ? Do not make a date of issue of the day. One or two hours is sufficient. In reality, you know, probably within the first few minutes, if you want to see again or not. ? Look for any unusual behavior. Someone objectionable, inappropriate, or the drop of a hat of Angers is not the kind of person who exemplifies Christ, or is pleasant to be around. Also, to see discrepancies in what has already been said. There is a question that continues to dance? A story that changes? These signals are enormous. Finally, if you suspect that something is not up-and-up, try this: look at the ring finger of his left hand. If there is an indentation or line so that a marriage is usually the band, get out of there - FAST. Remember, if at any time during the process of dating online feel uncomfortable, you can tu around and walk away. Do not worry about hurting the feelings of embarrassment or anyone. Your security is more important than that. Believe me, you get over it. Tip # 6: Listen To Your Heart My adorable nieces sing a song that says:? Listen to your heart Pitter-Pitter-pat. Your heart will tell you this and your heart will tell you that. Sure, it would not have said. And this brings us to our final point. E 'uno che mi repeats, because it is so important for Christian singles: Listening to the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit to all. If something goes wrong is to say. And if He does not say anything, do not ignore it. Single Christian can get so involved in the vortex of emotions of a nascent romance between the other drowned. Once again, God knows what's best for you and yes, you want to have. The trust in him, and he will guide your way.