Six things every Christian should know before Citas

Six things every Christian should know before Citas Years ago, online dating has a reputation that was less than desirable. But today, that stigma is quickly passing. Thousands of single Christians are currently finding friends and establishing relationships online dating. Major websites such as eHarmony are running large advertising campaigns with great success. Online dating is becoming increasingly mainstream, the Christian community and the individual jumps on board with feet.So was thinking that too? Great! But before you put her? Feet to the fire here? S some tips to help make your online dating experience a pleasant and successful one.Tip # 1: The Secret IdentityUnfortunately, there are those who hide in the dating sites on line (yes, even Christian ones) to prey upon the innocent victims. That is why it is important to maintain anonymity. Personal information such as email addresses and phone numbers must be kept secret until after the person and the feeling that you can trust. Create a free account through Juno, Hotmail or Yahoo specifically to communicate with prospects online dating. Offers no information that can be monitored on-line, such as names, employers, addresses, etc. You would be amazed at what some of you might know a little piece of information. And if someone tries to pressure to reveal something, RUN! Many cases of identity theft (such as stalking) have been bo through an online dating experience. Tip # 2: Father knows best're chatting with someone online and things seem to go well. But there's a chilling feeling in your gut that just does not go away. It is probably not the remains of China, which has the food for dinner. Holy Spirit, may be a sign of alarm. The Lord knows what is best for us, and He wants us to succeed. This is why the Holy Spirit is here. To guide us in situations that are good and lead us away from situations that are bad. It 'still small voice, his conscience, the first impression that someone says: "Oh yes, that great" or "ick, I do not want that." And in Christian online dating game, is its most important. Therefore, in the early stages of online dating, is skeptical. Do not buy into a message, profile, or something you said (the old adage is still water - it is too good to be true, it probably is!). The anonymity of the Inteet allows people to be what they want, and often a person who is completely false. So take your time and meet new people. Do not rush things. Do not enter into intimate conversations. And more importantly, if you get this feeling Yucky not discuss with him! Just quickly retreat from the situation and thank the Lord for his guidance. Tip # 3: A picture says a thousand WordsLooks can not be everything, but in the game of online dating, a picture can save a big headache on the line. If there is a picture on the website already, always ask before setting up a reunion. It 'confirms what the profile tells you and gives you an idea of what seems (to some, not so much for the others). If the person balks at this, for whatever reason, not be involved. They are obviously trying to keep something hidden from you, perhaps one of the spouses. How would you feel if you showed a photo of her new beau to someone and say, "Oh, that man is the husband." Speaking of shame! Caution is key here. Use it in abundance and once again, to hear the voice of the Lord. In Part 2 of this series, right? Ll see the two and not? T of meeting face to face. About the Author Jason Whitney is an author and writer whose new book The Christian Singles Guide to Online Dating and the best? provides a simple roadmap to follow to help you find God? s perfect. For more information go to