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Root cause of the lack of problems 63 Two people can gather ideas argumentsand combat. This is a situation in which he is entitled thinkshe concept, while the other believes that the concept is correct. Themwould is trying to beat the other until one claimsvictory.Here 's a real girlfriend Riza example.My I sometimes buy signatureclothing. When my mother based on what it costs, you should budget our money and buy affordable ones.A Riza problem only occurs when you think that his best effortto I was despised. Mom, on the other hand, would think that Riza is a spender.There 's conflict with their beliefs. Two people are not exactly equal. We are absolutely unique, not only physically, but mentally and emotionally, as well.There will be many times when notcorrespond your opinion with others. So how can such conflicts occur peopleprevent? Communication is the key to overcome the doubts and misunderstandings.You other people should know what is in your mind.Don not keep guessing. There was a story of two couples who divorce filing. After the prosecutor spoke with themboth found that the root cause of all theirproblems was due to miscommunication.Here 's a man of the couple filing the application for divorce problems.The said that only breakfast food hatedthe that your wife often prepared forhim. In addition, his wife said she'sonly preparing the meal, because he thought that was the favorite of her husband. Cookingit But she is not liked because it is very difficult prepare.See? If only one of them took the initiative tospeak what is on your mind, then it would be thatparticular dilemma over.Now because people prefer to keep their criticisms to themselves complaintsand? What is themback company? It's because they do not want to be rejected. Most people, if not all, want to be accepted and must be perceived as pleasing to the eyes of others. Therefore, you can get your message, without damaging their feelings? Substitute positive statements with negative ones.Instead saying: "I do not understand," says "Letme explain." Instead of watching "You're wrong," says "I want to clarify." Instead of saying "No one says , "speak" Perhaps this was not stated. "There are certain words that affect a person morenegatively than other words that have the same meaning.Nothing could be more pleasing to the ear heard someone else say that you are well. In this case, be prepared to let others know that you respect their opinions. You can add your comments at the end, but acknowledge first.Say: You're right, though ... Great suggestion, however ... I agree with your opinion, but ... I feel the same way if it were you, but ... I understand your situation, however ... Reassure your counterparts that the decision will benefit both parties. People need to feel that they did the right choice.Communication is a gift. Use it wisely for the benefit of all. The Author Michael Lee is the author of "How to be a Red Hot Persuasion Wizard," a book that reveals shocking secrets on how to get what they want. Lea how to fully improve your relationships, explode their profits, win arguments, and magically influence others. Take a sample chapter